Doing the right thing is sometimes the wrong thing...

Yesterday I read a very eloquent and thought provoking post about community (or the lack of it) and it made me think about the Internet and what may be termed the 'electronic village'.

Shellys blog is the epitome of thoughtful blogging and she exemplifies the best of the Internet in terms of her ability to engender and support a virtual community spirit. I am using Shelly as a counter-point to my own experience of attempting to 'support' fellow bloggers in the 'electronic Village'.

Where Shelly is thoughtful and a good listener, never thrusting her views on others, I appear to have fallen into the habit of being an evangelical Buddhist (what a awful thought THAT is...).

My lead feet wade in with reams of advice when all that's required was maybe a sympathetic murmur and best wishes. I deeply regret this and in particular I regret a post I left on this blog post yesterday, particularly as I may have contributed to her decision to stop blogging. The reasons for regret are fairly self evident when you read her response....

The lesson today dear reader is as follows...listen, listen and then listen some more and don't assume that everyone shares your belief in Karma and positive thought. Oh, and I can be an I D I O T occasionally..

'Whatever words we utter should be chosen with care for people will hear them and be influenced by them for good or ill.' Buddha

Dead birds, cat herding and bowels you wouldn't wish on your worst enemy!

Weight - 241.6 lbs (-28.4).
Exercise - swimming and aborted jogging (twice)

Well, I haven't posted much over the last week or so. This is for various reasons but mostly because I have been feeling sorry for myself. I have no reason to feel this way but emotions never come in clearly marked tins showing their 'country of origin' so to speak....

I rather rashly decided to run a weight loss challenge and then almost instantly lost anything approaching interest in the basic mechanics of losing weight, i.e. diet, portion control and exercise. I also found that I am REALLY good and telling people to think positively and then wallowing in a bucket of my own self pity.

Oh, and I felt really ill last week as well - ahhhhhh!

I felt generally under the weather ALL last week - I'm not sure if the mood caused the illness or maybe the other way around..either way it manifested itself as a severe disruption to the 'trouser department' if you will, i.e chronic IBS and various feelings of nausea and general prolonged periods of unspecific 'utter shiteness' - a term not to be found in 'Taber's Cyclopedic Medical Dictionary' to the best of my knowledge, but wholly descriptive nonetheless...for your sakes I will elaborate no further...

Needless to say, it completely put me off my stroke, fitness wise and diet wise. The self control and focus flew straight out the window like a jet-powered cockatoo and I succumbed to the old twin evils of comfort eating and drinking. Double bugger!

Thankfully, towards the end of last week, my bowels regained some composure and my outlook (like the weather in the UK) started to improve. And then came the Pheasant....

As you may know, the central tenet of Buddhism is compassion for all living things - usually something I am able to cope with quite easily (except when shopping in IKEA that is - if you don't know, don't ask, it'll only set me off again....).

On Saturday, we spent a lovely day, firstly at Woburn Safari Park checking out the wild animals and then a relaxing swim at Whittlebury Hall. Well it would have been relaxing had this not happened ....

Yes, that IS a real Pheasant rammed up the air intake of a Land Rover Discovery - and yes, you CAN get a 6lb bird through a 2 inch gap if you hit it at 90 miles per hour. I know this for a fact....

Not only did I kill it (thereby blowing most of my Buddhist credibility in one go) but I proceeded to drive it around all afternoon and didn't notice it until I got back in the car after going shopping much later in the day (much to the amusement/disgust of 3 spotty youths riding their little bikes around Waitrose' car park - their faces were indeed a picture...!)

So what you may ask is the point to all this, I wish I knew. More importantly, where does the cat herding come in? Well, starting this challenge has made me realise that I was not cut-out for 'cat herding' - a notoriously difficult profession at the best of times. Trying to get every ones starting weights, e-mail addresses ( half of you have 2 e-mail addresses, some have 3 or more blogs each and you call yourselves up to 4 different names for Christ sake!! ) - but herd those cats, I most certainly will.

The one thing this last week has proved to me is that I need a challenge and also at times like this I need to remind myself that life can ALWAYS be harder...

The Fat Bloke is back - let the games (nearly) begin!

A busy weekend!

Thanks for all your comments and e-mails giving me starting weights etc for the challenge.

I will respond to all your e-mails over the next day or so - this will include a re-statement of the challenge rules and confirmation of the next weigh in date.

Hope everyone is well and I will be visiting very soon to say hello!

Good start to the challenge!

Sorry folks, but I am struggling to get the e-mail out to all of you as many of you do not publish your e-mail on your blogs. I have employed a guard to look after your e-mail addresses to make sure they are not kidnapped and sold into spammery (see picture below) so don't worry about sending it to me!

Time for PLAN B!

Please e-mail ME (its in the left hand column) with your starting weight in Lbs, Kilos, stones, bags of flower or snickers bars, whatever suits!

Once I have every ones e-mail and starting weight, I will set up a distribution list to update you all on updates, prizes etc etc etc. I would rather do this than clog up my blog too much with organizational stuff.

I will post weekly with the top 5 etc and monthly with every ones progress. Sound fair?

SO FINALLY, PLEASE E-MAIL ME AND LET THE GAMES BEGIN!!

2007 FBT Weight loss competition.

Thanks to everyone that has registered for the challange! I will be e-mailing you all tonight to give you the last instructions and then off we go!

'I never see what has been done; I only see what remains to be done.' BUDDHA

2007 FatBlokeThin Weight Loss Challenge..(UPDATED...AGAIN!)

Right then, does anyone else want to join the 2007 FatBlokeThin weight-loss challenge ?

Anyone can join at any time but to be a founding member of this thrilling challenge, you need to let me know by Thursday 26th July 2007 (i.e. 2 days times !!).

The Rules.

Starting weight - the weight as measured on Friday 27th July 2007. I will e-mail all contestants to establish their starting weight (no helium or hover-magic shoes allowed..)

Weigh ins - there will be weekly weigh ins every Monday and a monthly weigh in on the the first Monday in each month (staring on 3rd September 2007) all weights to be e-mailed to me at the address shown in the LH side bar..(no, the OTHER left!).

Prizes - small but exquisite prizes will be awarded for biggest loser each week (if I'm feeling generous) and definitely every Month!

Remember weight loss will be measured in %age of starting weight lost to make it fair for everyone. I will publish a chart detailing everyones progress (not sure how or where yet but it'll come to me soon!).

By all means use the graphic above to publicise your involvement - I can supply different colours/sizes if required, just let me know or design your own if not, I'm not proud. There is NO requirement to show a button on your site if you don't want to. This is just a bit of fun.

Finally, F U N...this is what this is all about, it is not about starving yourself or doing dangerous things to your body to lose weight quickly. This is to create some community and some sorely needed motivation for each other. I reserve the right to discount contestants excessive weigh loss if i suspect naughtiness of any kind. Keep it real people!

Contestants registered so far :-

Chris H at http://diet-coke-rocks.blogspot.com/

Spunk http://www.100poundstogo.com/

Laura at http://lauramarie36.blogspot.com/

Manie at http://the-me-i-was-meant-to-be.blogspot.com/

Lady T at http://2whommuchisgiven.blogspot.com/

M at http://balloongirl.blogspot.com/

***** UPDATED 25TH JULY 2007 *****

new additions to the challenge...

Evita Sawyers at http://jeanstootighttomention.blogspot.com/

Victoria at http://diet-journey.blogspot.com/

Amelia at http://somethingelse.geekfamily.net/

Totegirl at http://pudgebudge.blogspot.com/

Marianne at http://practiceliving.wordpress.com/

Cory at http://dragonsloss.blogspot.com/

Tigerlilly http://whereistigerlilly.blogspot.com/

Sparkys’ Girl at http://lovinglowcarblife.blogspot.com/

Amazon Alanna at http://tri-bologna.blogspot.com/

Shrinky at http://www.shrinky.net/

MORE new additions to the challenge...

Jojo at http://toafk.blogspot.com/

Twisted Cinderella at http://tc-twistedfairytale.blogspot.com/

Flabuless at http://www.findingflabuless.com/Blog/

Not so Snow White at http://its-notso-bad.blogspot.com/

Groovybabe at http://groovybabe.wordpress.com/

Spread the word, the more the merrier!

A wet fish swifty applied to the chops!

Blimey, I wish I had trusted my instincts and not contributed a moaning meme (it's not your fault Jessica but you'll see below why it wasn't such a great idea...) negative thoughts can be so destructive and I have gone and proved it AGAIN in such a graphic way!

I have understandably upset my blogging pal JoJo, and I never wanted to do that! She is a passionate motorbike rider and to generalise my negative thoughts to cover all bikers past, present and future was in hindsight crass and stupid. JoJo, I apologise. I am human, I get annoyed, but I have have put tremendous effort into reducing my negative outlook and reactions - I should read my own posts more often it seems to remind me what I am trying to do here!

The one slightly positive aspect of the whole 'moaning meme' saga is that it reminded me of why I am where I am.

I began to get serious about my weight loss when I began to get serious about the other aspect of my life that was in crisis - my spirituality.

I am where I am because of a spicy cocktail of Spike Milligan* and HH the Dalai Lama (well...sort of). I read a lot of Spikes books in my teens and some of the great Milligan imagery has stuck in my mind.

One of the most vivid memories is a passage in one of his later memoirs dealing with his well documented PTSD (Post Traumatic Stress Disorder) during the latter stages of WWII whilst stationed in Italy.

Trust me, there really is a point to this!

Spike was struggling to deal with the harsh noises of war (that's why they used to call it shell-shock in WWI) and he had a particular hatred of the low flying fighter planes (both Allied and German) that 'buzzed' his army camp from time to time.

He took to yelling at the pilots expressing the sincere hope that they would "bl***y well crash and die!". This diversion to his day pleased him greatly until the inevitable happened and after yelling at one unlucky British pilot, the plane crashed near the camp killing the poor pilot.

Spike was immediately racked with guilt and blamed himself (quite irrationally as you'll appreciate) for the pilots fiery death.

And now to the point.....

A few months ago I was travelling through a large city in the UK and witnessed some unusually impatient road-craft from a 'gentleman' on a very high powered Japanese motorbike. Once he had dispatched me into the distance with a shake of the fist for daring to impede his hundred mile an hour qualifying lap, I came across another of his kind who obviously fancied a challenge as he set off in hot pursuit of the other rider. My well-worn reaction to these types of encounter is, in finest Spike Milligan fashion, to hope they "bl***y well crash and die!"...

Like Spike, eventually you know it had to happen....As I crested the brow of a hill about 30 seconds after my negative thoughts, a number of cars were slowing in front of me and as I came to a halt I could see in front of the cars a clearly terribly injured (and obviously unconscious) motorcyclist lying in the road with his bike almost implausibly far up the road..I felt sick. My son was asleep in the back of the car during all this. A number of people were offering assistance and calling for an ambulance on mobile phones, so I maneuvered around the obstacles and carried on my way.

I have seen accidents before and usually shrugged them off in my certainty that they were stupid and 'asked for it'...but this was significantly different. I easily rationalised that I did not cause the accident even if I had wanted it to happen but I felt deeply shocked by it nevertheless - for some reason, this was a far more visceral reaction than I had ever experienced before.

I was not shocked by the accident as much as by my extreme reaction to it. My negative thoughts made the accident almost personal in some way and as I drove home I began to think more and more about that rider - thinking of him as a person rather than an impersonal irritation. Yes he rode with arrogance and carelessness but he is as likely as not, a son, a husband, a father and a good friend to someone....I knew then that I had to learn to show compassion to all people, good and bad.

This thought reminded me of something that I had recently read in His Holiness The Dalai Lamas' book "The Art of Happiness". In it he shared the view that if we treat each other as just plain human beings, communication is so much easier. To ignore our differences and concentrate on our similarities allows us to communicate more effectively and allows us to find true happiness.

By the time I got home, I realised It was a another human being on the motorbike and I needed to treat all people with kindness no matter what they may do or however they might treat me.

See, there WAS a point to this after all! If only I had remembered it BEFORE I wrote the 'moaning meme' although I stand by the Racism one - that is a cancer that is destroying us all (regardless of colour and creed) from the inside out.

Still, I have learnt a big lesson today. I have a VERY long way to go to reach enlightenment and these set backs serve to show me the full exent of the journey still left. For that I am grateful.

* information about Spike Milligan from here (shame on you if you need this though...unless you live in Peru, then I forgive you) .

Serve you right syndrome - moaning makes you fat!

As if to prove my own theory of the correlation between positive thought and weight loss, I have put on 2 pounds since last nights rant-fest!

'All that we are is the result of what we have thought. If a man speaks or acts with an evil thought, pain follows him. If a man speaks or acts with a pure thought, happiness follows him, like a shadow that never leaves him.' Buddha

Oh dear....there is always tomorrow......

Moaning for England!

Jessica the Rock Chick recently tagged me to answer a Moaning meme. I am not a huge fan of meme's but I made the exception as she asked so very nicely, it was hard to refuse!

The meme originated here and the questions are as follows :-

5 people who will be annoyed you tagged them.

Right I am going to 'cop-out' straight away. I hate to annoy people because I hate being annoyed - know what I mean?...I go out of my way NOT to annoy people most if the time. So I will chose to tag 5 people that should provide interesting answers...(some will be annoyed though...<snigger>)

Shelly - she's so busy this will really wind her up!
Jenny - she's not an anonymous boxer for nothing (except I know her name - doh!!)
Mrs Wibbs - she is so nice, I just want to see if she can actually moan at all?!
Crankybee - this lady is OLYMPIC standard!!Lol!
Any finally, who else but Chris H - yikes, ear plugs at the ready people..lol!!!

Hey, I've just noticed, they're all woman - what does that tell you.....(answers on a postcard boys!).

So with that over, let's begin....

4 things that should go into room 101 and be removed from the face of the earth.

1. International franchised retailers - companies that use a 'one size fits all' business model for every country and culture in the world. You are stamping on centuries of culture for pity sake, are you blind???? - BE GONE!

2. ALL shopping channels - mind rotting garbage - enough said.

3. Motorbikes, or more particularly motorcyclists - In their stupid bright leathers, they all think they are Valentino Rossi, they obey none of the rules I have to obey in a car - they ride like maniacs at speeds that would give most people a nose bleed whilst making a noise like Concord taking off and then have the utter cheek to accuse car drivers of not looking out for them when they get knocked off due to their own incredible levels of fuckwittery (sorry for the language cat lovers, I am warming to my theme).They are inconsiderate, arrogant, dangerous individuals who should be locked up for other peoples safety - my hatred of penis extensions (er don't you mean motorbikes) has got me in trouble before now and was fundamental to the reasons for me starting this blog (sorry to be slightly mysterious but I want to share the story another day). Anyway, I want to crush all their bikes into 6" blocks of scrap and make their former riders wear them around their necks as a medallion for the rest of their sorry lives..ahhh that feels better!

4. Tabloid newspapers - single-handedly that have reduced the national IQ to that of a very, very stupid plasterer.... Every time I see someone reading one, I have to fight the urge to run up to them, grab the rag and tear it to shreds before stamping on it. It is rotting the collective national intellect to such an extent that politics and debate are almost dead in the country - most of the mindless proles that read this tosh have to be told who to vote for every 4 years - it makes me VERY ANGRY in a mildly Buddhist sort of way....

3 things people do that make you want to shake them violently.

1. Talking in pyscho-gibberish business-speak. I used to have to attend meetings where we would indulge in 'blue sky thinking' and where we would seek to take things 'off-line' and be encouraged to 'sing from the same hymn sheet' - why can't people just say what they MEAN!

Also, why are all job titles so incomprehensible these days - it all started when Personnel became Human Resources and like a virus, the disease has spread (no offence to all you HR titans out there, but really, what HAVE you gone and done...) - I remember when we had a Managing Director who ran the place , now we have COO'S, CEO'S, CFO's - utter rubbish, just a load of self-aggrandising bollocks, excuse my french..!

If you want a good laugh, get a serious Sunday paper and check the job section - are these people on drugs??? Check this out if you don't believe me!

2. NOT INDICATING BEFORE MAKING A LANE CHANGE OR OTHER MANOEUVRE (sorry to shout...) - it completely does my nut in, the fact that people can drive around all day thinking that the act of alerting the rest of humanity to their future intentions is a compete waste of their time, so when driving in the UK, when you are not looking out for the Government Cash Machines, you spend your time trying to use psychic powers to determine the imminent movements of all the vehicles around you! Arrrrggh!

3. I know this is supposed to be light-hearted but racism drives me bonkers! I read this article recently and was gob-smacked to see that these sorts of archaic attitudes still exist - I just want to grab these people and make them see sense. I would love to change their skin colour for just one day and let them experience life on the other side....I am ashamed to walk the same planet...more information here from the BBC.

2 things you find yourself moaning about.

If I exclude work (I'd be here all night otherwise), I really try hard NOT to moan about stuff but in reality when push comes to shove I guess I tend to moan a lot about driving (other peoples that is) and the dastardly diet industry - I hate to see people spending money for things they could do themselves with a little encouragement!

1 thing the above answers tell you about yourself.

It tells me that the Dharma is a LONG way away.....oh dear.

Finally, deese em da rules....

• Link to the original meme at freelancecynic.com so people know what it's all about!
  
• Be as honest as possible, This is about letting people get to know the real you!
  
• Try not to insult anyone - unless they really deserve it or are very, very ugly!
  
• Post these rules at the end of every meme!

Why 'Special K' is NOT so special after all....

I just came across this great post about Special K advertising and had to share it..I found it via Crankybee's great blog. Visit if you get a chance.

This is a very thoughtful article and really made me consider the almost subliminal negative messages in some advertising - my total rejection of the 'diet industry' is well documented and this is a CLASSIC example of what is wrong with them.

The promotion of self-loathing and the implication that some 'franken-cereal' can somehow make everything better is insulting at best, and at worst damaging to vulnerable overweight people.

If this seems like an over-sensitive reaction to some innocuous looking advertising, this must be viewed as part of a complete landscape of negative images of fat people and 'fatness' in general through-out every type of media, in practically every single culture.

I certainly don't subscribe to the notion that Fat Rocks (not sure whether this is meant to be a joke - if it is, it ain't funny and you need to get out more my friend, and you might stop being such a gold plated freak...) - being fat kills people - FACT! Encouraging people to loath their bodies PREVENTS people from dealing with their weight - FACT! The 'diet industry' is a 40 BILLION DOLLAR business in the US alone and most people do not successfully reduce their weight over a long term using these costly options - FACT!

Everyone trying to lose weight must reject these types of emotional blackmail and resist the idea that we are freaks for not fitting in - be happy with yourself and plan your positive development - don't let some 'suit' tell you you can't go out 'cause you are too fat.

We can get thin - they cannot grow a brain! Who's going to win this race?

Anyone fancy a fatblogger race then?

Can you hear that....?? That's the sound of a gauntlet being thrown down by Spunk over at 100 Pounds to go!

I have been looking for a while for a way to link us all together and create a motivational network to keep us all focused on the job in hand - this could be it!

I have accepted the weight loss challenge from Spunk and proposed we race DOWN to 200 pounds (we are both at @240lbs so we have 40 to go).

How about I open this out to anyone who is on the weight loss journey and wants to get involved? If you are interested, simply comment on this post or e-mail me and also spread the word far and wide throughout blog-land, tell everyone that we are having a race - the more the merrier!

How about we have a weekly and monthly 'how much did I lose competition' all the way to the end of the year. To be as fair as possible, I think we should judge success by %age of weight lost rather than straight poundage - this should make it fair for people of all weights. What do you think, this is all about motivation, right?

If there is enough interest, I'll knock up some snazzy graphics etc and post weekly with everyones updates - every month there will be a small but amusing prize for the 'biggest loser' (please don't sue me CBS, or whoever makes the damn show, I am NOT a threat to 'da man', I'm just a Fat Bloke!).

Once I have the names of everyone that is interested, I will post the rules and regs and off we go!

Come on, everyone fancies a race, don't they?

Centenary post / weight update and Comment Competition

This, believe it or not is my 100th post!

So in celebration, a few FatBlokeThin Statistics and a couple of competitions...

So, where are we now? The tale of the tape!

Number of Days since weight loss journey began - 90 days

Starting BMI - 38.7

Current BMI - 34.7

Starting weight 270.0

Current weight - 241.8

Weight loss - 28.2

%AGE weight loss - 10.4%

Lbs to lose to reach 1st target - 41.8


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General weight update.


Weight - 241.8 (-28.2)
Exercise - 40 minute walk at lunchtime yesterday (during a fast - are you MAD?!)

The fast is going REALLY well. Yesterday was DAY1 and fluids only - I had the usual problems (excessive peeing, joint pain, interrupted sleep etc) but I kept focussed and woke up today feeling fresh and NOT remotely hungry.

I have eaten fresh fruit today with loads of fluids and will have vegetables and salad tonight.

The fast brought on a massive (for me) single day weight loss since yesterday - around 5lbs! Just think what it could have been if I hadn't ate like an idiot over the weekend - anyway, don't look back and it was mostly water anyway!

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And now, my latest adventure in Link Love (as Shelly would call it) - over at This Eclectic life, she is both promoting a competion and holding her own. They are both 'refer-a-comment competitions' (no I had no idea what she was taking about either...).

Basically, follow the links below and leave a comment on the post using my URL as a referral (i.e. http://fatblokethin.co.uk/).

The winner is the person with the most referrals (not me as it helps to have a readership...lol!).

Finally, create a post linking to this one on your blog (just like this one) using the links to both the competition posts and hey-prosto, your in the game!

Does this make ANY more sense to you than it did to me?

Anyway, here are the links to follow :-

Best of luck!!

Fame at last (not really...)

Those more observant amongst you will remember that I gave an interview to WLTips.com about my philosophy (eh?) of weight loss and well-being. It is now available on the website here.

Call the Diet Police!!!

Step away from the food!

Well, what a weekend - a seemingly never ending roller-coaster of food....

I really fell off the wagon on Saturday. Our new neighbours came to dinner and far too much food and alcohol were consumed. I ate all the things I know I shouldn't (bread, cheese, lots of olive oil etc, etc), drank wine and whiskey like the last days in Hitlers' Bunker.

I compounded this with some truly dismal food choices at a birthday party we attended on Sunday. Fried chicken, pea nuts, cheese (again) - blah, blah, blah - ughh!, what an idiot!

The obvious consequence of this is weight gain - On Sunday morning I was 3 pounds heavier than Friday!! The less immediately obvious consequence was the effect it had on my running (or indeed the lack of it...). These woefully poor food choices completely blew my energy and motivation levels - I felt bloated, tired and listless....I am so angry with myself!

Anyway, the diet police have been called and the diet is back on! I have been sentenced to a 3 day fast to get myself back on track. I will restart the running on Wednesday from the beginning of the programme, and THIS time, I will not let anything deflect me from the course I need to take.

This turn of events is truly ironic when you consider that today my interview has been published on the weight loss tips website. Ironic in the fact that of all days, I have never felt less qualified to advise anyone on mind over matter diet motivation!

Right, that's quite enough self-flagellation for one day ....

Don't leave it 'til tomorrow...

We got married in September 1999 in the UK and spent our honeymoon in New York City, Manhattan to be precise.

We stayed in the Algonquin Hotel and took in a Yankees Baseball game (there is a whole post in that little trip - just dealing with the 'gypsy' cab ride home - OMG!), Central Park Zoo, Macy's, the whole shebang!

But for me the absolute highlight of this 10 day extravaganza was a Broadway Show (even though, unbelievably, I managed to fall asleep at one point due to excessive 'entertainment' the night before!) - not any Broadway show though, but RENT.

I have never been a particular fan of the usual musical theatre (i.e Howard Keel et al 'slap-a-my thigh'ing' all over the shop in bright red wigs etc) but I am a big fan of uplifting emotional music and was incredibly moved by the story and music of RENT.

The story is jam-packed with compassion, emotion and the tortuous road to love (of every shape and size it has to be said).

I recently watched the film of RENT and was struck again with its forceful message of love and compasssion for everyone regardless of race, colour, creed and sexual orientation - it seems to me that we all live and die the same way and deserve the same respect and compassion.

I cannot think of one single better way to be judged that by the love I have given to others.

Wouldn't the world be a better place if we could all exist like this together - each desperately trying to compete with each other to give the most genuine and sincere love to our fellow human beings?

The song that particularly struck an emotional cord with me was Seasons of Love (see below).

How would you like to be measured?

Seasons of Love (Rent)

Five hundred twenty-five thousand
Six hundred minutes,
Five hundred twenty-five thousand
Moments so dear.

Five hundred twenty-five thousand
Six hundred minutes

How do you measure, measure a year?
In daylights, in sunsets, in midnights
In cups of coffee
In inches, in miles, in laughter, in strife.

In five hundred twenty-five thousand
Six hundred minutes

How do you measure
A year in the life?

How about love?
How about love?
How about love?

Measure in love

Seasons of love
Seasons of love

Five hundred twenty-five thousand
Six hundred minutes!

Five hundred twenty-five thousand
Journeys to plan.

Five hundred twenty-five thousand
Six hundred minutes

How do you measure the life
Of a woman or a man?

In truths that she learned,
Or in times that he cried.
In bridges he burned,
Or the way that she died.

It's time now to sing out,
Tho' the story never ends
Let's celebrate

Remember a year in the life of friends

Remember the love!
Remember the love!

Seasons of love!

Oh you got to got to...
Remember the love! remember the love,

You Measure in love - know that love is a gift from up above

Seasons of love.

Share love, give love spread love

Measure... Measure your life in love.

Sermon over - carry-on about your business!

Plateau officially busted?

Weight - 243.4 (-26.6)
Exercise - day off yesterday to let my shins recover (back to normal today!).

I am at my lowest weight since starting my weight loss project - this is both surprising and not surprising, I'll explain..

Firstly, I am surprised due to the visit to Buddies yesterday and succumbing to the temptation of an 8oz chilli hamburger, coleslaw and fries!! - I did have a bottle of water with it though - does that make it OK??? Yet another example of the Beef Wellington Diet - it seems the worse I eat, the more weight I lose... Now that's a diet that would sell! Ker-ching!

I am not surprised due to my much increased exercise - the running is beginning to work (if the shins hold up - thanks for the advice AB) - and I still do some power walking most weekdays.

Thanks for all your recent encouraging messages by the way - I have been very remiss recently in not replying. I will rectify this over the weekend and come and see everybody!

Finally, shameless plug, I have decided to move my photographs and Wordless Wednesday participation to another site over at Wordpress (thought I would dip my toe in and see what WP's all about). I am having a few 'issues' with uploading images via ImageShack but feel free to go across and have a look - there is a limited number of pictures at the moment but I will be updating this also over the weekend.

Something clicked inside my head today...

Steady people, I'm not about to go 'Postal' on you!


The whole running thing hit me like a wet kipper in the face today. I suddenly realised what I had been missing for so long. I feel sort of reborn (whoa, wha-whooooaa - not that way!!) - physically reborn if you will. I'm not explaining this very well...stay with me.

I ran properly for the first time on Saturday and felt utterly terrible - if I was a cat I would definitely have lost several of my lives. I followed my version of the Couch to 5K instructions to the letter - it was hot but not THAT hot so whilst I felt really happy I'd started, I really struggled to think I cold ever get where I want to be (fitness wise that is).

That was, until yesterday...WHAM! My wife runs a lot you see (she is out now running as it happens - doing @10K with her running club). Sorry to go off on a tangent, but they go down the pub after running - what's all THAT about eh? Bizarre.. Anyway, back to the plot...

Yesterday I went running again as I say - this is my official start of the C25K programme (Saturday was a dry-run), my wife came with me to keep me honest and as soon as I started running, she said 'You run fast!' - 'Me? Fast, uh?' It then dawned on me that on Saturday I had gone running as if to escape my own homicide, not as if to get exercise! D'oh!

I now know I need to pace myself and follow the programme, but I am actually itching to go running tonight! I am gob-smacked. Up until today, I would have rather eaten my own ear-fluff than go for a jog...Look at me now Ma!

London Buses (similarity to awards that is)...

Like the proverbial London buses (in that you wait for one and ages go by before 2 turn up together) - I am being veritably showered with awards lately (well if 2 can be interpreted as a shower, a spit of pleasant drizzle maybe!).

Hot on the heels of the recent Thinking Blogger Award, I learn from my great blogging friend Shelly at This Eclectic life, that she has finally lost the remaining marble in her bag and decided I should be awarded something! It appears to be something to do with shmoozing (is that something my mother would approve of? Who knows but sounds intriguing nevertheless..)

According to Shelly, the definition for schmoozing is :-

The natural ability “to converse casually, especially in order to gain an advantage or make a social connection.” Good schmoozers effortlessly weave their way in and out of the blogosphere, leaving friendly trails and smiles, happily making new friends along the way. They don’t limit their visits to only the rich and successful, but spend some time to say hello to new blogs as well. They are the ones who engage others in meaningful conversations, refusing to let it end at a mere hello - all the while fostering a sense of closeness and friendship.

Well anyway, thanks Shelly and as far as I can tell, this is a good thing and as you know, all good things should be passed on. I am relatively new to this blogging malarkey so don't have a massive blog-roll to choose from but those that I do have really do exemplify the spirit of this award.

They are (drum roll), in no particular order,

Chris H at Diet Coke Rocks - never fails to comment, never fails to amuse and lets me get away with NOTHING! Bah!

JoJo at Are we there yet? - very quiet at the moment but usually a frequent and very welcome guest on my 'stoop' - love chatting with her.

Tom at